Choices-Good or Bad

Life is all about choices and making choice. At every step of life, we are faced with choices   and our choice affects our lives  for a long time  and sometimes they have a irreversible effect on our life. I  have always wondered whether having choice is good or bad and till date I am in mess.
Deciding between vanilla or butterscotch, blue or purple dress, Appu ghar or essel world, Goa or Kerala  is fun and the list is long. But imagine when choices are to be made between being a doctor or engineer, deciding between Riya or Shweta(who is a better friend), First Love or best friend(who will be a better life partner) are question that you wish it was better you had no choices. I am sure you must have faced these  at some point of time in your life.

But the challenge is not easy. Sometimes  when things  don't turn out the way you had wanted them to, and in one or other the case it does  in the choice of your college, career, best friend or partner: and you are to break your head wondering what would have happened had you made the other choice. Remember the poem in your English book during your school days, "The road not taken".
You would completely agree with me that its an awful experience. For all the wrong  things  that happen around , you blame yourself or your family's wrong choice  and imagine that life would have been magically better, had you made the other choice. This thoughts haunt you now and then.
But let me tell you a secret.You never had a choice guys. When you got what you wanted; the Almighty  knew it was good for you and when you did not, He knew it was not the right choice for you. And if you ask that in the first place why did He make you think  of a wrong choice;  the answer is that He wanted to teach you a bitter lesson of life and remember the lessons of life are taught  practically.