If you are reading this article hoping to find another story with a rich guy and beautiful girl in love, or two people of different castes in a relationship; then you are in the wrong place. I am writing it only to explore the meaning of true love.Before you pull your hairs for picking this article and cursing me for writing it, give a thought to the question" what is love". I am sure there must be innumerable answers describing it in the best of adjectives and adverbs: positive and negative both I am sure. You might have remembered your past experience or must be fantasizing a beautiful one, rather I should phrase it as picture perfect one.
Let me come to the practical meaning of love. If you enter a relationship only to have a company when your friends tease you for being single, or you think you are a dude or a hot chick and you should have girls: or boys in the latter case, wooing you wherever you go then its just love: better term it as that you are in a relationship. But when you see someone with whom you think you can spend your whole life, make big promises, start planing your future then probably its true love.But if your dream love dumps you for someone or something one fine day, then what? Either you tell yourself it was not your true love: else you cry, cry for months together , eat your room-mates head, carry a sad face everywhere convincing yourself that if it was your true love it would come back to you.
So technically your love was true or not depends on the condition if it holds on to you or leaves you for another person: And for people who have more patience, would frame it as if it comes back to you then its true, else not. But guys do you remember the first and probably the most thought quality of love-"Its unconditional". So why condition it guys.
Love is love. It itself is a pure feeling. You need not add another word "true" to it according to your comfort. Love is already complex enough. Adding this word would rather increase the complexities. So keep it simple.and next time when you say to someone, " you are my true love", decide it in your minds what you mean when you say this.