Change-The only stagnant thing

Many close friends or even your partner must have said these famous lines-Don't ever change, remain the way you are- always. But you changed, everyone does. For good or for bad, its difficult to say, but we change every day, every minute. Every person that comes in our life affects us , changes us. It is this change that prepares us for tomorrow. It is an ongoing process. Sometimes we don't even realise it.

Change is often percieved as something negative. All of us want to remain the way we are.  But thats not true guys. Just as you grow in age, similarly you grow emotionally and morally: so ofcourse we change. When you were kid your life involved your family.Your eating habits, likes dislikes were completely derermined by them: you relished the not-so-tasty healthy food and said No to chocolates.When you grew up, friends made  an important part in your life,  chocolates, burgers or ice-cream became an essential element.The adventurous rides that were banned for you during your childhood suddenly  become your favourite timepass. Further more you start looking for someone special.Once you find that person he or she becomes the most important part of life.His /her likings become yours. So thats how it is. You did not realise but you changed.

Change is such a process, it happens so gradually, so slowly, that we don't even realise it. Remember that Chales Darwin theory -survival of the fittest. It is this change that helps us to adapt to our changing environment. The change of environment from home to school and then to college. So guys change is'nt a negative thing always, to a certain extent. Look at the mirror and you see a different person, then close your eyes and look through your heart and soul, if you are still the same, you have won the battle. There may be few scratches, few thrashes that highs and lows of life gifted you . But you are still YOU